I've asked this question before and indeed received an answer..but for me the
non-geeky type, it was complete gibberish...

How can I create / use mailing lists that will allow me to send out e-mails
IN BULK, but each of the recipients will ONLY see their name...and not, at
least overtly, know they are part of a mailing list of several...

I need some good hearted soul to hold my hand and walk me through the
various steps.... feel free to e-mail me

Thanks