I have created a rule that when I send an e-mail to
a particular address
that it defers the delivery by 10 minutes say
so that I don't too quickly reply to a forum/group when I really want to
send a reply to just the person who posted the first e-mail
but the reply I create then sits in the outbox - well beyond the defer
time - and just continues to sit there
so it never actually gets sent

can someone please suggest how to make my reply actually get sent or suggest
another method by which I can put in someone sort of pause or check before I
mistakingly reply to the whole group (and suffer the embarassment etc).

Peter