Take a look at the Delegates Tab in her Calendar (right click the Calendar,
Properties). There's a setting there about sending meeting updates etc only
to my delegate. (I don't have Exchange software in my home office so I can't
tell you exactly what it says)

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Judy Gleeson
MVP Outlook
Trainer and Consultant www.pragmatix.com.au


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"Brian Tillman" wrote in message
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Idaho wrote:

....but not receive the RESPONSES (Accept/Decline etc.). I'm her
delegate.

She wants to be able to respond to appointments but she wants the
RESPONSES to appointments that WE schedule to go to ME, not HER.

Is there some way to customize the calendar to do this?

I believe that's a setting she can control. In Outlook, see Help's
"Delegate Access Permissions" topic.
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Brian Tillman [MVP-Outlook]