Set outlook offline then delete.
See http://www.outlook-tips.net/howto/stuck_message.htm

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"Frustrated" wrote in message
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I tried to send a few messages with attachments and they are stuck in the
outbox. I have tried to delete them and they willl not delete. I have
tried
exiting them and I get a message that says all 3 are in the process of
going.