When I delete an incoming message from someone in my Address Book, that
deleted message does not go to the Deleted Items folder. It's just gone,
deleted. But....any other messages from an address not in the Address Book
does go to the Deleted Items folder. Is there a setting somewhere that I
must have checked to delete these messages without going into the Deleted
Items folder? I really want them to appear in the Deleted Items folder as
well. (my delete finger is sometimes quicker than the mind)