I run in a stand-alone enviroment and copy my wife on all of my calendar
entries (home business, WinXP Pro, Office 2003) thus she receives an invite
to a meeting so it appears on her calendar when she accpets the request and
she sometimes makes appointments for me on her system and "invites" me. When
I change or cancel a meeting a request is sent to her. When she applies the
update the subject line is changes to "Update: xxxxx" and a cancel is changed
to "Canceled: XXXXX". Is there any way to (1) automatically have the word
"Updated" removed from the subject (2) if a meeting is canceled we want it
automatically removed from her calendar. On my PC I don't see the word
"Updated" and if I cancel a meeting it is removed from my calendar. This is
just a lot of visual noise and it creates confusion for us.

We have office 2007 but because of the learning curve we have not installed
it. I mention this just in case it is a possible solution.