i would love to configure oe to work perfectly,but i always seem to have an
issue with something in it

I keep geeting that yellow checkmark telling me something is wrong or mail
cannot be sent or delevered
on a few of my e-mails,i get them perfectly within MSN9 and perfectly
through e-prompter,but i like to have my mail and my newsgroups in the same
spot,thats where OE comes in.Newsgroups configure fine,but e-mail,thats
another turtle there,I put in what my ISP says is their code and i get the
infamous yellow exclamation mark.
with MSN, i have tried mail.msn.com,incoming.msn.com smtp.msn.com and
nothing seems to work
with verizon I KNOW its incoming.verizon.net and outgoing.verizon.net yet
when i enter it...........i get the error message.

Now a real quagmire............
when i go to a ball game i normally e-mail a story of the game to
freinds,everyone recieves it fine EXCEPT those at AOL
does aol block msn?
if i get past this configuration issue at OE and get my MSN mail on OE and
as a default will OE sucessfully delever the msn mail to AOL ?(OE as
mailserver but verizon w/msn9 as isp)

thanx in advance