I use Outlook 2003 on both my desktop and laptop computers. Currently
I am using Microsoft SyncToy to copy my .pst to my laptop so that I
can have the most current information available. I keep all email I
receive to my laptop on the server (AT&T/Yahoo if it matters) and
manually BCC myself on all emails I send.

I have tried (what I think is) a peer-to-peer network (set up via my
Linksys router) plugged into the DSL modem with some success. I have
mapped the folder on each PC laptop2desktop, and desktop2laptop and
kept the file on the laptop only, meaning my laptop must be on to get
my email and each time I open Outlook from my desktop my desktop
reboots. I don't have a server/exchange.

My questions:

1) is there a more efficient/practical way to do this?
2) can I set up an automatic BCC if not?

Thanks