I wish to set up a client side rule that will automatically forward an
email that I have sent to a contact to my other email address. I don't
want to auto bcc as I want all the header info of who I sent the email
to. I have tried several Auto Bcc tools but they aren't what I am
looking for. I also don't want this for all outgoing email just email
that I have specified the To: address. I can't CC: as I don't want the
original recipient to see this.
Is there a tool that will auto forward an email I have sent straight
from my Sent Items?
Running Windows XP, Microsoft Outlook 2003 using a MS Exchange Server.
Any help appreciated.

You can use an add-in for Outlook called Bells & Whistles. With this
3-rd party add-in can select to always send a BCC email to a specified
address, for each message that is going to be sent. The recipient of
the email won't see the address you chose to Auto BCC. This software
can increase a lot the productivity of working with emails.

You can find it he
http://www.emailaddressmanager.com/productivity.html